In this weeks lecture, we looked at the topic of, is social media destroying our society, or does it have any specific influences on our life’s. The answer is yes! Everyday social sites such as FaceBook, Instagram, YouTube, Twitter etc. have a huge impact on our relationships with people and the way we communicate with them. Social media does not change what we do but it changes who we are. Those small devices have so much power over our life’s that as a society we forget how to communicate and have conversations. If we can’t control what we type, say, or even our body language we get scared because through the screen we can edit words, emotions through a screen without anyone seeing us. Technology is making us lonely. We think that we are sociable people because we speak to our friends, family, or even randoms on an everyday basis through social media sites. But truth is, without those devices, we feel lonely and feel like there’s nothing to do with our lives. An example is when my friends come over my place or vice versa, keeping a conversation is hard because we’re all on our phones checking our social medias, even though we are connected we tend to lose ourselves. Many individuals are scared to enter a relationship because they feel like they will have no ground level and nothing to talk about, this is when the loneliness kicks in. I am a victim of this myself. I’m not saying it’s a bad thing or we should stay off social media sites, but we should monitor how much energy and time we spend behind the screen, and put some of that energy into the real world.
In the video Linked, Sherry Turkle explains this in great detail 🙂
Sherry Turkle: Connected, but alone?